CASE 2: ON the RUles of RELATIONSHIPS

Ladies and Gentlemen, let me remind you of a very obscure fact.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!

But.. THERE IS SUCH A THING AS ATTRACTION AT FIRST SIGHT!

Probability of love at first sight to just attraction at first sight= .000001:100000000000000000000000000000000000000

So here are the RULES of deciding whether you can dive into a relationship. Thankfully they're only three! (This is the guiding philosophy of Mr. Go Kim Pah, founder of Equitable Bank.. actualy its his philosophy on business.. not love but wht the heck! IT applies to everything! ESPECIALLY LOVE!)



1,) What is easily obtained is little appreciated

2) What is not held in great value is not retained in permanence

3)Success in love achieved without a thousand days of sweat and blood may flourish for a while, but will not last long and its fruits will not be enjoyed.

CASE 1: On the Rules of Love (from my former/fave ed in chief)

1. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you the way you should
be appreciated.

2. Don't ever settle for mediocrity,

3. ................................for being just an option

4. ................................for being the one who's just fun to be with

5. ................................for being the one who's always there waiting

6. ................................for mere concern or pity

7. ................................for someone who likes you cause he knows he's got the power to break you.


Because deep down, you know who you are and you know without a doubt that you deserve better

if not the best...

Words have been spoken...

Cased CLOSED!

(Judge smiles content with the case and the chocolate bar on her hands...)

(Someone commented my blogs were too dark? I don't know. I don't think so...)

It means something to me.

1)You commented that I will never be pretty enough for anyone to fall in love with me...

It meant nothing to you, just a careless statement you continually utter...

It meant something to me...

2) You told me you had a girlfriend, 2 months after you said that you love me...

It meant nothing to you, just an ego that couldn't handle just one girl...

It meant something to me...

3)You said that I was a lousy leader.....

It meant nothing to you, It was stated at a heated time, where emotions run high...

It meant something to me...

4) You checked the way I enjoy my accomplishments, that showing off isn't the way that a lady should behave....

It meant nothing to you, in your mission to crush anyone, how could it mean something?

But it meant something to me...

5) You demanded that I protect you, from the unforgiving law that punishes you.

It meant nothing to you, you just want to escape.

But it meant something to me....

6)You begged me to love you again, even after all the things you have done...

Your past mistakes meant nothing to you, all you see is the girl you want to be with... for now..

But it meant something to me...

When will you understand the fact that...

Meaningless things for you...

Isn't always really meaningless?

When?

Perhaps if I break your heart first, then you'll understand.

It Won't Work Out

Notable reasons why situations just don't work out.

1) One of man's greatest flaws is their obsession with rushing things. (You cannot rush love, no matter how in love you say you are. I seriously do not believe on love at first sight)

2) The apparent motive isn't always the real motive. (Ahem... He helps you.. apparent motive: He wants to help.. real motive: he wants to use you-not in a good way)

3) There is no such thing as a free lunch. (Self-explanatory)

4) Saul's conversion on the road to Damascus does not happen everyday. ( No matter how much you want him to change, sometimes the best thing you can do is leave.)

5) Another man's great flaw: Jumping before looking where they will land. ( Caution is an imaginary virtue when the heart is gripped by love)

6)People usually never learn from experience. (He cheated on you! Then you suddenly crawl back to him??? -hehe lots of anger issues here-)

7) The philosophy of the majority: AS LONG AS IT IS FOR LOVE (One of man's prime example of irrational behavior)

8) A forgotten fact: There IS a time to be selfish. ( Being a martyr for your faith is acceptable, seeing that you are fighting for the common good. But giving it all to a man who wouldn't give you the time of the day? NO WAY. There IS such a thing as too giving)

Note: Friends have been mangled and destroyed because of this. It really couldn't work out.

I cannot save you

I cannot save you....
That is the simple truth.

Much as I would try to spare you from the pains you are about to endure,
I can do nothing.

As long as I can't command the heart to stop beating
or as long as I cannot control the elements,

I am unable to help you.

You are my friend
So precious to me

But as long as I hold the scepter of Justice in my hands,
As long as I am under oath to denounce biases,

I am useless to your cause.

May you forgive me dear friend,
For my lack of action

But as much as I love you, dear friend.
I cannot violate the Law of Right.

Lastly, forgive me dear friend.
For the sword of consequence is bestowed upon me.

All actions have a certain consequence.

I cannot save you,

For Justice has come for your payment.

FI National Youth encounter

One by one, all of them turned to leave. I suppressed my tears, even though I knew that I may never see them again. So I thought of a way to say goodbye without getting all too teary...

I found a stack of stationeries in the handbag I bought to the encounter. With a passion to write, I wrote to each of the schools that sent them.

The night before their departure, I didn't expect anyone to react because I assumed that they didn't know my name. I assumed this because I myself had a hard time memorizing their names. After dinner, I was surprised when the group from Nazareth school approached me and said thank you. Then more followed. It turns out that I had a classmate who was a cousin of a student there. They wanted to find out who the writer was.

Other schools found out when I was asked to deliver a speech before all the delegates. Of course they announced my name. By now, everyone knew who I was and what I did.

IT was a teary moment, we all shared the same belief, the same passion, even though some speaks Ilonggo, Bisaya and other dialects. That night I found out that everyone in this group is significant and I am ashamed of thinking myself as an insignificant creature. Thanks to them, I now know otherwise.

I was like a specter when they talk. Luck would have it that I was sitting in the middle of two lovebirds. Yes, fate is so kind to me! And yes, I meant that in a sarcastic manner. But then, I'm not one to feel sorry of myself so I resort to teasing using the aid of our other seatmate. All is happy then. The lovebirds, blushing everytime I tease them while I have the fun of my life.

Yes I am happy. Happy that I am free from the heartbreaks that come their way. I know that they really love each other but it's inevitable.

OF COURSE that you won't believe me at first. Who ever heard of a teenager maintaining a Platonic relationship with any male human being?

Hehe Believe.

Heart Matters Part 2

Effects of Heartbreak on the Heart

Clinical Fact: Heartbreak can really cause the weakening of the heart, especially those who already have heart or even lung disorders... haha

My fact: Independence prevents heartbreaks even when in a relationship. One should learn to establish own identity and doesn't need a man to make him complete

What love should be like: Not needing a man to complete you, but in your completeness choose freely to love a person, in YOUR WILL!

Why the heck am I writing this: Just feeling weird. To all my sisters out there, GOd bless and hope you the best (both in love and war, cause even us women are capable of starting wars...)